Received an email about love from an 18 year old girl from India. She fell in love with someone and then had a break up in their relationship. She was a regular listener of BK Shivani's spiritual lectures and hence writes to us for a solution as she is feeling down.
Original Email received:
I am Nilanjana Das. I live in Kolkata and i am of 18 years, a student. I recently had a bad break up and this was my first relationship. Though it was the guy who first professed his love to me, at last he ended the relationship by saying that he does not love me at all and blamed me for no reason. Maybe, i did not come up to his expectations but i really loved him and tried to make him happy. But i failed.
I am a regular follower of sister Shivani's youtube videos and trying to come out of the situation but i am not able to forget him. His words and promises are ringing in my ears. Please help me. What must i do to come out of this situation.
And one more question is, are good deeds really rewarded?
Our Email Answer
You are a regular listener of Brahma Kumari (BK) Shivani and hence you would have watched Awakening episodes.
It is seen that today's young children having disinterest in life after failing in love (called break up). When they don't get what they want, they believe it is the end. This is because of not knowing what ''love'' means.
You need understanding of What love is and what love means. Here is a nice explanation by Sandeep Maheshwari: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_1bFkC2tRY and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6gEkCp0f08
Watch both videos and you will understand the true meaning of love.
Now that you know, Do you think such a relationship exist between you and anyone else? Of course, a parent has immense love for their children. But can you think of anyone like this who can love you unconditional and yet you need not to even see him? What is love? - Love means to become one with someone and there is NO separation - there is unconditional acceptance and always there for each other.
Only one GOD can love you like this. He is the ocean of knowledge, an ocean of love. Know about God (the Supreme soul)> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba
Our invitation to Marry to God: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/marry-to-god-shiv-baba-a-message-for-kumaris
---- Useful videos ----
Attachment is not love - BK shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE
Spiritual in Life - FULL playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHupP3idhQ0&index=4&list=PL6mmKavEt550gQnky1pg88MKiX9cZSz2L
Do watch all provided videos and the last playlist given of 'Spirituality in life' to learn the way of living. We hope you will get the aim of this great human life through services given like Awakening, PMTV, Website and more.
PMTV live: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/pmtv-live
Awakening Audio episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes
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