Email received from Ujjwal (India) who is in Gyaan since 8 years and wish to marry and asked for advice upon an obstacle he faced during marriage. Here is our complete guidance as directed to us by beloved Shiv baba in Murlis.
Original Question asked via Email:
Om Shanti Brother / Sister
I have done the 7 day course in 2010. I read Murli as well on a daily basis. I am from Meerut (Uttar Pradesh).
Please advice on the following:
I love a girl and wish to marry. She also loves me. We both talked with her parents and they shown our Kundli to a Pandit who then refused for our marriage because our rashi didn't match. That was the day we separated.
The communication in our relationship has reached to no contact. It's been 3-4 months now. From the day she came to know about the unfavourable match, She said she cant live in fear for her life. Maybe because her mother is not agreeing or she is not willing too. I tried to convince but then she was not willing. I also left the situation as is and walked away.
Now after doing too much of introspection in these 3-4 months. I found that I also did a negative karma by walking away as suggested by friends.
From the last few days I have been practicing Swamaan by detaching myself from this situation and giving it to Baba.
Our Email Response (Answer)
To: Everyone reading
Your message is received. You have done the course 8 years ago. Hence you have taken the Gyaan. You also are studying the Gyan murli everyday. Isn't it? Hence you must know that marriage is not permitted in this time. Shiv baba only gives advice. Then it is children's choice. This time is difficult for everyone. Many changes are coming and will continue to rise till the transformation takes in place.
Murli has all this information. We not only should read murli, but churn (think about). Who is speaking? Is a human being speaking this divine knowledge? Murli is uploaded in MP3 also on babamurli.com OR if you use Sound Cloud app, here is our channel where complete sustainance is given daily: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk
About: your question:
As much information you provided, it is clear that your both karmic accounts are NOT deep enough for life long relationship. That is reason why this happen. It was only a temperary milan. So you should accept this and move ahead in life. You have taken Gyan and that is not ordinary. Now you are one in thousands who have a key to change your fotune for next many many births..
Beter is that you forget about this and learn what was there to learn.
You are already a special soul. In thousands, there is one who came and got the inheritance from the father (Shiv baba).
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