A wife write us email letter that her ''Husband is Alcoholic and beats his own mother. I cannot bear this, what should I do?'' Here is our complete 2 emails guidance for her and for those who have similar family problem.
Original Question asked via Email in Oct 2018 :
Di I am greatly troubled at the present situation in my family. My husband is alcoholic and beats up his 70 yrs old mother frequently. His mother refuses to take any legal step. I am unable to tolerate this. This type of environment is affecting my daughter's education, mental and physical health. She is 11yrs old. My husband gets extremely violent after he drinks and the situation is very scary for me to face.
Please Guide me.
Our Email Response 1
Your letter is received and read. We will surely guide you and your life will become better. For that, you have to first follow the guidance given. You are already watching Awakening programs - that is a benefit. So you can also ask your duaghter to watch Awakening.
Change happens slowly slowly. If you start becoming powerful from within, start giving vibrations in food which your husband eats, and even then you can convince your husband to once visit a nearby BK centre. Centre have a divine atmosphere. There ask a sister to explain the 7 days course to both of you.
You do not have to fear. You are a Shivshakti. You are very powerful. Unless you do a sin, you do not need to fear. Become viceless. Devi is worshipped in temples because of Purity.
Advice: Practice 'Swamaan' - this is making the mind powerful. For this, Soul consciousness is the first step. ''I AM A SOUL''. This 'consciousness' is neeeded.
Wake up early in morning (5 am) and sit in silence and imagine yourself as a tiny pont of light (image is attached). Then listen these commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2
Guided RajYoga (music + commentaries): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary
You yourself will experience. Do let us know your experience in few days.
Our Email Response 2
Here is the further guidance. As advice was given to learn Raja Yoga meditation and then practice Swamaan for 7 days daily morning. Hope this you have done.
Now guided commentaries are also given here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary
This is a guide to how to learn raja yog. As you told, family condition is improved. As adviced, please wake up ealry and give Sakaash to your husband and mother in law. They both need the powers to heal their wound. You have to first become powerful.
Where does power stay? Power stay in mind and intellect. KEEP YOUR MIND PURE and intellect lean and focused. Think positive or atleast don't think negative of anything. If something happens, just withdraw yourself and sit for meditation for 5 to 10 minutes. OK?
2. As now your spiritual stage is better, now start listening Murli . First know what murli is: What is Murli of Shiv baba?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli
Listen Murli daily in mp3 on this website: babamurli.com
download apps for Murli: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv%20Baba%20Brahma%20Kumaris
3. As you now know What is Murli that we study daily and start listen murli, you will get direct sustenance (paalna) from Parampita Paramatma (Shiv baba).
How to listen murli?
I am a Godly student and God, who is my beloved father has come in this time to teach us the TRUE knowledge. - Sit with this consciousness.
Waiting for your progress.