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I am 21 years old and in the last year of my college....... My mother has always complained that my father does not care for her and has total disdain for her; he prefers to be more outside the house than inside the house. But to me, my father has always been quite loving and caring. My mother was waiting for the past 20 years, that once my son is able to stand on his own feet, then I will take a decision. As I will sit for placements this year, and most probably land a job, my mother is losing her patience that she kept for so many years. During the lockdown, I have been home for the past few months and have witnessed fights happening between my parents at an interval of every 4-5 days. These days, even my father does not seem to think about what words he is saying to my mother, in front of me. In midst of all this, I have to prepare for my exams and placements too. Now, how do I deal with this situation and how do I support my parents emotionally and spiritually? Pranaam.....

Why does Baba have to always ask the children to have the intoxication that Baba whom everyone worships is Himself teaching us? Is there an element of doubt in the children? Have we not got the most elevated knowledge of Gita from Shiva the Bestower of Gita Gyan? So many times Baba has said that He is incognito but He is unlimited in his virtues, qualities, powers, knowledge. He has said so many times through Brahma, that He is the HIghest on High. He is the only one who is Bodiless. He is the one who is free from all bondages. He is the principal actor and director of this unlimited drama being enacted on the world stage. Each soul is numberwise. As souls, we are children of the Supreme Soul, the Father and his name is Shiva. When we consider ourselves to be souls, then we are beyond gender and our relationship with each other is brothers. That is why it is brotherhood that is talked about. The Supreme Father is only one, who is the Bestower of Salvation to all. He grants all souls liberation and liberation-in-life. Yes, we cannot see Him with our physical eyes, but we cannot even see a soul with a physical eye, so what's the big deal. Does not the knowledge that He has given us, our true identity as souls, adopting us as Brahmins through Father Brahma and giving us the knowledge of the three aspects of time, thereby making us Trikaldarshi, prove that this truly is not something which an ordinary human soul can do. Can anybody so efficiently describe the true nature of the soul, the maximum and minimum number of births a soul can take, the time duration of one cycle of Kalpa, the three worlds, the physical, subtle and the incorporeal, or better known as talkies, movie and silence world which exist. He is the one who is truly altruistic, totally egoless, He says I say namaste to you children and make you the master of three worlds. I do not go into the Paradise that I create for you Children. Thank You Baba, my Spiritual Father, Teacher, Satguru, my mother, my true companion, my friend, my love. I love you from the bottom of my heart. Your mahima is aparamapar and I feel truly blessed that You have found me Baba.

Many souls who come in Gyan for first time experience a divine high stage of Yog with Shiv baba and they find that they have come very close to the supreme father. But time progresses, they feel that they are not able to follow the Shrimat fully and thus their stage of Yog has degraded. There can be many reasons for this. Baba has answered on this in both Sakar and Avyakt murlis. Read to know how to bring back that stage which you had when you first came in contact with Shiv baba and this Gyan. Original Email we received I m a regular student in gyan. In the beginning my state was high.i experienced gods power, love, peace, prosperity. But after 4 years because of my negative sanskar of previous birth, my state fell down. Now I listen only gyan in words but cannot experience supersensous joy from Shiv baba (god) during RajYoga meditation. What should I do? Our Answer (Response) Dear Divine Sister Baba has already explained this in both Sakar and Avyakt Murlis, especially in Avyakt. Murlis that we study daily are directions for us on what to think, speak and do. So even if you only folow the Shrimat of today's murli - this is enough to experience constant god's love and bliss. Since as you follow the right path, you will get in direct connection with god. Here is a personal advice: 1 . Most important dharna for us Brahman (BK) souls is ' purity ' or ' celibacy '. You must follow this first shrimat to be in a constant sustenance of Shiv baba (god). Purity is the base for all virtues and spirituality . It is must. Read our article on celibacy to know more. 2. Make a Notebook Listen daily gyan murli and note down important Gyan and Dharna points in a notebook so you can always revise. This then you also read before sleep. Practice 5 Swaroop in early morning and before sleep. 3 . Before and while listening Murli, sit in soul conscious stage . See yourself in the centre of forehead. Then bring in consciousness that Shiv baba has come down in the body of Prajapita Brahma and now speaking this Murli to me. 4. Practice Swamaan ->  https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY 5 . Understand that at first, when we are born (spiritual birth) , Baba's powers are given to us as a blessing. So we feel very high - love, peace, powers. Then as time passes, we are grown up and  we have to get on our own legs . Shrimat is given . Those who walk according to the Shrimat, will constantly feel the higher Yogyukt stage.  6 . Listen or Read Avyakt Murlis . Avyakt vani (murli) is full of inspirations for Purusharth. Listen ->  https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/avyakt-bapdada-murli 7. Amritvela -> It is Shiv baba's shrimat to get up at amritvela for Yog. This is the time for ''milan''. World is sleeping - souls and atmosphere is silent. We are also at our highest spiritual stage at this time (around 4 am) 8. Do some service. Baba gives emphasis on doing service. '' As you are getting from me, you have to give to your brothers . '' - Shiv baba's Sakar murli version. You can do ' mansa sewa '. You can do service from home via our online platform ->  https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/shiv-baba-service You have to follow the 8 points and see how it boosts your Purusharth. Accha namaste On Godly Service 00